HOW TO OVERCOME FEAR OF EXAM:

Almost each of us know what exam mean? Those sleepless night revising each word thrice an hour . As a mentor I observe diverse behaviour in children during the period of exam. As you all now exam month have been started and it's already trigger on children brain . What kind of fear children go through

Due to parents pressure

Comparison with fellow friends

Lack of studies and notes

Mentally disturbance

Pressure on brain

Top score greed

List interest in studies

Fear of certain subject or teacher

The most basic problem face by children is parental pressure continuous lecture on study may increase high risk of hatered toward study and some what birth of fear inside it's subconscious mind.

Try to understand the behaviour of child .

Try to make and feel comfortable to share his/ her problem with you.

Make him feel comfortable even he score less or worst.

Tell him importance of education in his life .

Give him plenty of example to make him understand ,why we need to be literate.

How people suffer if they are not educated.

How healthy and kind if you are educated.

Make them feel how important they are for you whether you score good or bad .

Children have golden heart if you give them little love in return you will receive million.

Each student in my class have full right to speak out his / her problem.

May be as mentor I some time become bridge between parent's and children it's really work.

Achievement is important but,most important aspect is how we achieve it.

Diverse behaviour we can observe in children.

Don't compare your children with other child.

Comparison bring lack of confidence and hatred toward Other child.

Try to be kind and generous with child whether your or others.

Your kindness not only change their outlook but also boast positive vibes and confidence.

I still remember those days I studied in CBSC school timing was like half of the day I spend in school it's just like second home.I hardly remember I spended any time with my small sister or brother. My parents fear make us to get up early in morning for study .I don't like to wake up with rising sun. I just like to be with moon so, I believe in late night study that work for me.

I wonder the they parents and children behave after lockdown some are too much worried about studies whereas other just vice versa.

It's not easy to handle children when they are in group especially  secondary school students.

Their teen age behaviour tolerance is not easy but , god grace I handle 60 student at a time that also with smiley face .

Don't judge children according to their marksheet. They  deserve to be treated kindly and generously. I never judge my children all are equal in my eyes so, please you to follow the same.

Once I got an online lecture offer from a kind lady I wonder she spoke so good I said her why you need any teacher ? Even you can teach her .she replied with smile .she need strict mother I think I can't be so , I need your help. 

I just share my experience so that you should understand our thinking make difference in our outlook .It's our thinking which decide what kind of person we are .

Never judge people  just observing 10 second of their behaviour.

Parents should behave  like pillars in child Life let him go further let him cross the huge path and acheive his goal.

All children in my class are so much attach that  they don't want holiday, they like to attend class everyday. As a mentor I feel proud to say each child of my class now how to Read and write and have good communication  skill.

I often check my mail but , whenever I get time especially on weekends I surprise to see mail of old students of my Hyderabad and Nanded they still remember me. Every year on teacher's day and on my birthday they send no. of greetings . What I give them in no. I am getting in millions.

The best feeling when children comes to you and share your problems with out fear .I now many students call me Hitler but, now when they achieved success they understand the importance of Hitler in their life..

I am sharing my part of experience with children just to make you understood that today in such situation parent behaviour influence on children . What you give it's comes to you in double speed so,kindly follow the heart. 

As you now me all I suffer from extreme migraine still I try to be patience ,it's not easy when same word strick again and again  situation become worst.

You will surprise to now whenever I had migraine children just do self study and treat me like I am patients they are doctor but, I really enjoy the shower of love they show to me. 

As how now me personally my workaholic nature make me busy still I try to keep my personal life and professional life balance.

Each student's of my class now how to do self study any how I cross check hem by video call or by taking viva it's really help them and me to maintain discipline during absence of school .

Every day children sending their reading which boast their reading habit and improve vocabulary.

People often say how I manage I just do my work from bottom of my heart .My success speak in eyes of children that give complete satisfaction. I just got project of counselling which may be in future I will share with you all people.